DANCING IN THE RAIN…!

Laying asleep every night,kissing the day goodbye.Setting up for best of the day to come,in strive for PERFECTION ,excellence actually.Every day we make decisions we deem best that we may never look back and maybe start over again.It’s just going with the flaws.There is no perfection,even when we think we got it all figured out in our perception.It’s our insatiable desires,obscured to whatever bestows us,bad or good.In bad times,it’s just like on a rainy day.Making it a rhythm,dripping on your body.Having yourself  the BEST DAY;
PEOPLE WE  LOST ALONG THE COURSE …

Most Oftenly,people we held with much regard,in things we share a pie,don’t gives validation to who we used to be to one another.Disappointment,dejection and regret is the feeling because  they faulted  to our anticipation .Thought  it all we just get to know  people we  are without them.At times we can’t just “build bridges “,just letting it be the  way it gonna be.

“OUR LIVES IS NOT  PROSPER CHAPTER ..”

Circumstance will never be ready to give us the audience  in life to show case  what we needed  or need to do.It’s  always  along time coming,we plan as usual but events are variable.Things do go south,leaving us on the cross road,in which way to go.Our soul feeling shattered.
      “WHEN THINGS FALLS A PART..
We may  never see the shelter in a storm if we don’t seek to have one.To things that didn’t work out,it’s just good as it didn’t.Sometimes we get lost on our way to where we are going;we find another road leading to where we needed  but different  one.In this way we find kind,encouraging ,cruel,inspiring,disappointing and hopeful people .Honestly who know how it would have been following the path we choose if we didn’t lost.The strangers we meet and making part of ourlives,changing us in a different way.Nevertheless,on this way we are just  to find where the sunset will find us.

Hard times are prevalent to us all in one way or the other.Making the most of it is what counts in all events we may choose to write our own stories.

ROSES FOR MAMA

The background deco,

A perfect reflection of my song,

Echo beyond the valleys,

In the open field filled with the echoes of my song for you,

My pen,violin

My hand on your waist,

As I hold your other hand,

Trying so hard not to step on your toes,hahaha

They playing our song:Life beat

Heavens sent me Love, An Angel 

Super woman,before women I crown you their King, 

A thousand salutations,you deserve it

Up late,we talked,laughed,bad moments we faced:

Now like a fine art perfect  paint picture pinned on a wall, AMAZING

I’ll hold you umbrella,through the rain

Hold your tenson in suspension,

There’s something out there greater,but only GOD knows Find strength on your knees,HE is listening,

She said,decades after decades still trusting,ain’t easy,am holding up still, 

My hand on your waist,as I hold your other hand, 

I wish we could have another dance,

Rosses for you mama,super woman.

“..SACRIFICING THE QUEEN TO WIN THE GAME..”BEYOND THE COMFORT ZONE…

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WHEN ALL IS FALLING APART ..IT’S WHEN YOU LET IT GO!!!

Oftenly  in a relationship,most of psychological need is feeling appreciated,adored,cared for and mostly needed.Always looking forward for another day,a better day  if so in this case.Holding on to one another.

Growing into each other with every passing day.It’s  always to create a piller  of life  and beautiful memories to together.Keeping joy at disposal through the ups and downs.

Ironically,it may come a time you  throw  it all away.When all the things that have anchored you leave you lose  to fall in pain of regret .When you thought you are  having a perfect (“dance “)relationship and in the eventuality you are alone(playing with your shadow).
We are so fragile at that,when you find yourself on the extreme side;

YOU ARE NOT IN THE PICTURE.

If (s)he never imagined of waking up besides you  every a wake of the day of yourlives,don’t make it  hard on yourself.Let it burn.

YOU DON’T  FEEL  AS YOU  DESERVE.
You are worth it all,the dedication and the attention.You can’t  be in a relationship that deprives you of your serenity.You deserve the joy and happiness.We can not get all we anticipate from the significant other;no one is perfect.Yap,that’s right,but flaws shouldn’t  be prevalent that you give always.

TAKEN FOR GRANTED…
Like crossing a bridge which is about to fall,and you thought you got one another if you slip.But it only costs you much pain to find yourself with nobody to hold onto.
You should be shoulder to shoulder  through whatever the day bestows.It takes your breath away to know that you didn’t have much validation to your partner.

YOU ARE NOT TRUSTED..
TRUST..it’s  the most fundamention will of love we give to people we normally  choose in ourlives.In a relationship if your significant other,always tags you on the other side of LOYALTY.You are not TRUSTED.When it comes to that it erodes you away,emotionally.Honestly,you are NOT getting
any farther.Trust is one of the segments of love,one of the “thred ” that holds us.

YOUR OPINION DON’T COUNT.
It will hit you so hard when every decision you two make and your helping hand is pushed away.Being ignored with the person who should be counting on you,it’s so devasting.It leaves you feeling that you didn’t have value addition with attribution you  brings  in for the best of two of you.

TWO SIDES OF A “COIN”

We are never a missing pazzle of one another.You will never fit in your significant others   expectations.In diversity of whom we are,it’s what should build us in a relationship.There is so much we can learn from our differences to keep us more close and stronger  than division.

To be with somebody in yourlife is not always a sunny day.It gets  rainy and stomy at times.It’s through that you look through on the other side of the spectrum.But if it  TOO MUCH to mend than to let it fall apart,let it be.You deserve better and you know that.

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#FACEBOOKFIGHT ……;THE CALL OF RESPONSIBILITY FOR CHILD SUPPORT!!!!!

For two weeks now DEAD  BEAT KENYA,is the new  sensation.Being the most controversial and viral fun page.The brain child of Jackson Njeru,DEAD BEAT KENYA,he founded the fun page group to advocate for children who have been neglected by either dead beat father or  dead beat mother.

For dead beat kenya to post for members,members registers to sign in.They provide personal  detail information(phone number,full name,current  location,their job and place) of  the one whom is claimed  to be the  accused of child neglect.The accused  is subsequently   exposed  to acute comments and condemnation.

With  over 77000 likes  and comments.DEAD BEAT KENYA,have been the most trending  talked about.Apparently,the biggest percentage of  the “dead beat”  is “dead beat”  dads.This have sprawled  a thresh hold  between men  and women on facebook.

To gratificationof  most women who  are  bitterly  accusing  the man in  question  for child custody;The eventuality  is the deformation of the  accused.On the  extreme  end it causes  psychological  torture   and  subsequently  it  gives birth  to  perpetual  hate to both  couple.But  the  man,who is accused,will  naturally be more irritated  due to exposer to the world.

On the contrary  to gratification  of building  a bridge  to accountability.It’s the more  he is  being pushed  away,literally  speaking.This scenario  brings  more  negativity  than helping  the  child.

It’s not only men  that will feel he  same  way  but  even  “anticlockwise”,if it  can be reversed.It’s  the same  thing.We all  have  ego to a certain extend,but  at a time  when we feel it has  been crashed.It’s  the shame anyone  will be having  at  disposal.Dejection and humiliation is the  emotion coupled  with  hate at this state.

It might sound  much of  justification  but through the spectrum,it’s  corporal scolding,BLACKMAIL.It  doesn’t give sanity  and unity needed to both sides.

Social media (world in that case) will always be in reception  for ANY  feedback,JUST any that pops on  notifications.With this methodology,it’s a loosing battle.Somethings are just isolated as they should be kept.Exposer of “DEAD BEAT”  mum/dad  doesn’t  add anything.Opinions (..comments..)    don’t  counts  on some matters.

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FORGIVENESS…THE POWER OF HEALING.

It‘s inevitable for people to never cross your line.It do happen more oftenly..your  confidant  erodes away your trust  you deeply invested in them,(s)he  cheats on you even though you are  loyal to  the game,people  you gave your will of  responsibility tossed it  away.Disappointing,it is.You  curse the subjet and you keep it in your heart.

That’s  just persay,sh*t  happens.It’s natural  to how we react  to the event,we are humans.Configurated with  the same emotional reaction in events of   venerablity.

The  subsequence  of you,the  casualty;vengeance  and hatred  seems  to be the most suitable  measure  in the equation  of  being disappointed or being hurt.

The bruise(disapppointment) engraved  within your souls,constantly  holding on  to  that  picture.

But  holding on to the wrong dids  other people have done to you,t’s  like holding back tears.Deep  down  you  knowing you  should(should  have)  cried to  let it  pass  you by  with grief associated.
   LET IT  FALL..!!
Not literally but that’s how you over come it.Forgiveness  is a healing  therapy  to  our  own psychological well being.It  takes  the pain of being hurt away,we get to understand  others and ourselves in many ways;
  IN THE END  YOU GET TO KNOW YOUR EXTREMES..
It’s  the equilibrium   of   your  worst  reactions(vengeance,hatred) to those who  do you  wrong.
With that  you heal from that  BURNING emotion.You  over come it.

“..WHAT DOESN’T KILL,MAKE S YOU STRONGER..”

It must have been so depressing and devastating leaving you  dejected and weary.Any one of us can a test to that because we are all stereotype  to such happening.
Out of it you become of  better understanding of any misgivings that people may throw at you.

LETTING IT   GO..

When you forgive,it’s the negative feelings you leave behind.It’s  all in the past whatever  that  happened or what was said that bruised your ego.
No need to

carry on to another day with vengeance and  hatred.Let it burn!!

IT   WAS  FOR IT’S   OWN   PURPOSE…
“..Every thing happen for a  reason….”Such a  phrase  you  have heard so many  times .But  time holds so much validation  of it.Forgiveness shows  you  peace  you need.You liberate  your self  from entanglement  of  the pain  and  depression  people  have  caused  you.You  get  to know  the  reason  for your  soft spot.

Even  the desert   have  an  oasis.A  place  of  serenity under  harsh  scorching  sun,still  you  find  the  shade.

Just  a like,figuratively,you have the will of tender heart  to forgive.
You make  peace with  ourselves,you make  comfort with your inner beings.And consequently to others who  may have done you wrong  in  way  or  the  other.

You shouldn’t,we shouldn’t  keep  the  negative scores always and never.Nonetheless,no one is perfect,we do make mistakes.

FORGIVE,LET  IT GO.

THERE IS NO GOLD AT END OF THE RAINBOW

“You can’t have a baby in one month by impregnating nine women..”(WARREN  BUFFET ).
Oftentimes,we are customized with the thought to have our needs and desires on an instant.In every aspiring soul on this earth,always have that conviction  of better days to come,a pray for the day.

At the end of  day,you look  forward to write the best story about your longing endeavors.It’s not that you become a legend ,not really but that satisfaction of yearning desire.That you made it through to another chapter you anticipated .Honestly,things don’t usually fall on the slate  as envision,just at times;

     SOMETHINGS JUST TAKE TIME

That’s how situation can be;the world  is “wormer and colder”.Most people wants it ALL,all that they have in their “silver lined minds”. It takes longer sometimes .
    
     MIND ILLUSION ..!!

Bill Gates become global  sensation dispute being a college drop out.Surely,no validation that you share the same page of the story in life to make the same strive.Arguably,there might be but we live different  lives.We have divers passion.Thinking that  other peoples’ journey is the same rout for the you!!!!.It’s inspiration to your  own passion and believes.

  TIME WILL FIND  YOU.

Most definitely,you set dead lines for schedules.But in grand scheme of things;desires and needs can seem mirage away.Time will find you where you opted  to make your destination.
Sun will rise and set for another day to come,ready or not.Just like in every endeavor,things will happen while they can.

PILLAR OF ALL SEASONS …

For test of human anxiety and yarning,time duration shows the flexible heart that burns with ambition that can fold for awaited day and an open arm for anticipation.In hope and faith in abyss of life .Patience and peace with inner being is the strongest PILLAR that stands in all seasons.

FOCUS ON WINNING ON THE SECOND HALF..

Years and years and probably till the end of time,you are in a constant struggle with every coming day to win all that bestows on the way of endeavors.Win some,win some..In event of battles,you become  weak when you lose;but getting stronger to win the war.You may  not have won your first battle but gaining momentum
to win the war is admiration for any success.In life you are a contender because the world is competive.

We are all in the race for the same price but in different lines and pase.Sometimes,we stumble and fall.The Finnish line become far away from a distance,with  a lip of strive       its nearer than ever;DON’T STOP,DON’T SETTLE,life is moving.

Things that may be out of reach now,it’s because time is not yet and we have no control over that .

…OF THE SOCIAL CIRCLE …

From way before to the very moment,we have so many people in ourlives.Honestly,it’s not that we always figure it out to make that chain neither that we fall on the same page of life.
Just like the next step you are going to foot,you don’t choose  right or left foot ;IT JUST HAPPENS.It’s unscripted  occurrence that we all find ourselves in our social circle.”So perfect in social media “,just saying maybe with connotation of perfection which seem to keep us together as “friends “.Where we tell the world what it needs to hear,showing what it needs to see.
In reality,it’s the instinct that connects us to people we relate with.In relation in all aspects,we take the cast of others in our CIRCLE,we get to know how it feels like in their lives and vice versa.
       
         “..Until you walk in another man’s moccasins,you can’t image the smell…” (ROBERT BYRNE)

We always  live different souls,when we give our time of the day to people around us.When we listen,when we give that audience and not taking cast.At the end of the day,when all is said and done we have so much to take from one another;
“WE ARE ANGELS,WITH BROKEN WINGS “

“..You are truly a  good  person,good to connect with you.”Such a  token of gratitude,we get to hear sometimes,just maybe,most appreciated is the sensation.In expense of good and doing right,it’s the hardest thing.We have our own misteps,we are wired with flaws.No matter perfect we may envision ourselves in social circle  to things we do or say;we do bruise a soul,we hurt and anguish.Friends,co-workers,school mates,that stranger..We fall as casualties,they fall too in the same waves of event.We are not perfect;angels with BROKEN wings.
So much you will learn;

PEOPLE COME AND GO...!!

“..like a flower that inevitably wilts and lose its beaty ..”
It’s no that we hold so much eternity  validation in life of others neither that they do like air they can’t miss in every passing second.People might “grow wings” and away they fly..let it be,JUST LIKE THAT. Time always brings us to certain situations.

YOU CAN’T  MAKE  EVERYTHING OK   FOR EVERYONE..

In life,we are not the missing puzzle that should fit,at times .Things oftenly  fall off the balance when we may seem to be in full control.Making you the sabotage of the consequences.Deep down you do you best to save the day but ironically it seems far form the “sun set”.You just kiss the day for all it worth,that’s it when  the pie of cake we share isn’t enough.

DON’T  BE THE CAST…BE THE AUDIENCE .

Even though our ego frequently  makes us want to take ALL the credit.Nonetheless,it gets us  never to admit our follies when obviously we constantly oscillate on it.It doesn’t pay for sure,you can bet on that.
LESS CAN BE MORE …!!
Through people,we learn;we notice a lot about us,their burden,their hope .People  are the most appreciated asset we accumulate over the passing time with  immeasurable value .They are aspirations,a lens you look through,not measuring scale.

THE BEST  IS YET  TO COME !!

The CIRCLE is never complete,we are variable to one another.It’s unconventional as we may never see it.But with passing moment,time will.

In anticipation of things we do or wish,people we meet,people we celebrate every up-hill  and down hill;we always have urge and longing beyond the present moment.That’s how we are but
things will happen while they can.